So, you approach a girl, have a conversation with her, ask her out on a date, and finally, realize that she is not dating material. Many guys who want to land the right girlfriend face this problem. The reason why they meet the wrong girls is that they look in the wrong places. Have a clear idea of what kind of woman you look for and think where they can hang out. Also, you need to decide whether you want to have a long-term relationship or just a short romance.
If you’re aimed at a serious relationship, then you need to find a woman who shares your interests. Where to look for one? You can run into your perfect match just during your daily routine. Here are some places where you often go or would like to go and where the chances of meeting your soul mate are pretty high.
People interested in self-development never stop learning and try their hand at new activities taking different classes. If you’re one of those guys start attending group classes that gather like-minded people. You’ll not only acquire new skills or improve the existing ones but also expand your social circle and meet new people, particularly women. You can start a conversation with one of your fellow female students during a break and continue it after your class at a nearby café. The main rule here is to choose those classes you’re really interested in. Then, you will not have any difficulties discussing class-related topics with a girl.
If you’re a keen reader and you prefer paperbacks over electronic books, be more attentive next time you visit your local bookstore. This is another great place where you can meet women who have similar interests. Just look around and once you spot an attractive woman standing in front of your favorite section, strike up a conversation in an unobtrusive manner. Contemporary bookstores have lounge zones and even cafes, so if your conversation is going smoothly and successfully, you can continue it sitting on a couch sipping coffee.
Going to the stadium to support your favorite team, take your buddy with you. Apart from watching the game, you’ll be able to meet some girls who are also into sports. Sit next to a couple of girls who caught your eye. The opening lines here can be asking them for their opinion as to the game, players, or the possible score.
If it’s a corporate game and you’re a part of the team playing, focus on the woman you like rather than on the game itself. Have fun and be funny. The outcome of the game doesn’t matter if you go out on a date with her.
Have you ever tried to approach women near the vegetable aisle? If not, you should try. How? First, spot an attractive woman picking some food items. Then, come to her, start looking at the shelves, and ask her if she has tried a particular sauce, for example. You should sound naturally and sincerely, otherwise, she will think that you’re one of those pickup artists who practice their skills at a supermarket.