If you have teens, then you are already well aware that they will strive for more and more independence, and rightfully so. By encouraging some independence, we are doing our job in preparing them for the future.

On the flip side of that, is many of us parents are not ready for them to be too independent yet. I know that I want my kids to be able to be on their own for short periods of time. But, I also want them to want to spend time at home with us as well. In order to do that, I realize we must make it enticing for them to stay home…and also invite their friends to come over to hang out.

If you have the space available, creating a space they can call their own will go a long way in keeping them around for quality “home” time. Make sure to get their ideas to find out what they want. Or, you can run with their known interests and surprise them with a great room. Either way, read on to see some ideas, based on specific interests they might have right now. (more…)